I wish my parents would have told me that it was ok to have sex. and to not be afraid to talk to them about it. and just had an open relationship with me about it. especially when it came to having sex my first time and telling them i wanted to have birth control. [...]
I wish there had been less shame in masturbation. I was never told about it and discovering it and how my body worked as a young female was very shameful and confusing. Now I feel more confident and I know that female masturbation is natural and awesome!
I wish my parents had told me it was alright to be curious and explore your sexuality.
I wish my parents actually talked to me about masturbation, exploration, and sexuality, because that would've saved so much mental scarring from knowing nothing about it. My parents briefly talked to me about saving sex for marriage or someone really special, but ignored the other aspects about it. I wish both parents could've told me [...]
I wish my parents would have given me the talk instead of not giving it to me.
My parents never talked to me about sex or any relative things. It was a topic they never really wanted to talk about, but I never really asked about either. I have been with the same girl for 5 1/2 years now and we are engaged. Neither of us have had sex with anyone else. [...]
I wish my parents told me how after you have sex ur vulva can be sore. I also wish I knew more about having intercourse and how it can make you feel good. I wish they would have told me that some women are a little dry down there and they need some lub and [...]
I wish my parents would have taught me not to be ashamed of having pubic hair since I was an infant. It took me years to overcome the shame of being different when I was younger.
I wanted my parents to tell me something! Anything! That I am not a bad person if I have "inappropriate" thoughts. That if I touch myself, I won't go to hell. That by making the decision to have sex before marriage and wanting to be safe, protect myself...that they'll still love me. That they won't [...]
I wish they wouldn't have been so cruel in the way they told me. My dad was very blunt about all of it and offered no explanation for any of it, so I knew what certain things were, but had no idea what they really consisted of.