My mom was always very open with me, plus she was gay. So I knew the ins and outs of a Lesbian relationship before a heterosexual relationship. Which means I also grew up knowing being gay was ok. Honestly though I wish my mom would of talked to me about oral sex and “foreplay”. When my first boyfriend told me he wanted to “finger me” or “eat me out” I had absolutely no idea what that involved. The first time I ever gave oral to a guy I was terrified. I still don’t like it very much but mostly because I don’t know really what to do. I dont wish my mom would of given me step by step instructions but I would of liked a little bit of a heads up. I got the period talk, the sex talk, the protection talk, if it had to do with a penis entering a vagina I knew about it. But I never got the talk about everything else. I thought normal-missionary position-penis-vagina-contact sex was all there was. So when this whole other world opened up I had no idea what to expect. And I just wish I would of learned more about it.